Would you even hit a girl? [For Guys]

[Alegend1994]

I do commend you for your efforts in helping victims of bullying! I hope you manage to get through any issues you may have when you were bullying people--if you need someone to talk to, I'm sure there are people here willing to listen to you vent. I offer an ear if you need one, and I'm sure my husband would be willing to offer some of his views.

Thanks I guess that I feel obligated to help people in trouble since I know how terrible it can be when your being attacked for no reason and everyone else around is too scared to help, it's amazing to know how many people really want to help though but won't out of fear that they are the only ones. Usually when me and my friend step in to help other people around, who were just ignoring it previously, start to lend their support so the bullys end up clearing off because now they are the ones who are now out numbered. I wish that more people had the courage and confidence to defend these people because every time their are people that believe and want to do the same thing.

Also thanks for offering to help but I usually get this out when I go rock climbing with my friends, where we usually debate about random things and exercise our anger out which really keeps me calms for days and we usually go a couple of times a week. Plus when I was saying this I think I just had a lot of extra rage after reading the 'Gay Rights' thread so I over exaggerated some things because my mind was quite dark after reading Kyle's opinion.

There's nothing wrong with being respectful towards women and men. Respect doesn't mean you have to think they're weak and incapable or that you can't defend yourself if someone is coming at you because they're a woman, haha.

I think that it's just that a woman has never seriously wanted to start a fight with so I'm guessing how I would react but I think the problem is that some girls that I do friendly punch want me to feel bad as a joke so they fake their pain and even though I know it's a joke it makes me think a again about hitting them again, but yeah I try to never underestimate anyone no matter what because everyone has their hidden strengths that can give them the upper hand on you.

[Shade_13]

I realize that if i say "i never would", it would be a lie.

Under certain circumstances i would, i will damage a person, a human being physically, regardless of sex, age or anything.

Dont get me wrong, i am not a violent person, i welcome peaceful solutions to problems and, even more, preventing problems and avoiding them if necessary. But there are lines, that, if crossed, ought to be responded to. I personally can take in my address a lot of crap without blinking an eye and giving any importance to it. But, damn, help that person whatever god he's praying to if he thinks he can blackmouth people whom i'm close with and get away with it. If he's anywhere near me, i'll attack (no matter the outcome), if not, i'll remember. I dont know, maybe that sounds weird, that's the way i see it personally. Luckily, i must add, i dont really imagine a girl passing that line, so all in all the chances of me attacking a female person are very slim.

[DEATHxxx50bmg]

hell no. men never hit girls. its pathetic and shows how weak he really is. how smallhearted he can be to bring himself to hit something so delicate.

[† Emotional Outlet]

how smallhearted he can be to bring himself to hit something so delicate.

It's a little offensive to call all women delicate, as though none of them are capable of defending themselves and need to be protected by men. One of the instructors at the krav maga gym I used to go to was this red-headed woman I would never cross, haha. Woman was a beast.

[fenriredge]

I would never hit a woman or anyone else (unless it was for self defense).

In my house, my dad used to say : "Don't do to other what you don't want others to do to you." and I follow that, i don't like getting beaten, so i don't beat others. (Althougth some deserve a great big smack in the face....)

[Blood Alchemist]

NEVER!!!

and also there is generally no need for violence...

[Cauldraborn]

Damn... There isn't a poll I could select because it depends on the condition. I would never hit a girl UNLESS she trys to belt the hell out of me like full on fighting sorta thing, thats the only time i'd hit back but I wouldn't go out of control and brutally go hell for lether on her. I'd only hit her like once which should be enough to make her stop but yeah, ok maybe some people would be against what I reckon and may call me a girl basher or what ever but its called self defence. I ain't going to let myself be beaten to shit house no matter if shes tough or not and I stand to my rule.

[† Anras Rune]

Well, I doubt I'd ever hit a girl with intention to harm, and definitely never with a closed fist. In the bed I've done a little bit of light spanking and the sorts, but never anything that draws blood, except maybe the time I tripped and headbutted her... but that was accidental.

I have however, had to open hand a girl. Not hard, it was to snap her out of diabetic shock so we find out where she kept her insulin, and to keep her awake. So I suppose, given certain circumstances gender doesn't apply. I wouldn't hit a girl out of malice or greed... but if she came at me with a knife or something I'd gladly lay her out. Depends on circumstance.

[Gero50]

No I would never hit a girl. Not even if she hit me first. Its not right for guys to hit girls. In any case I don't like violence. Not to mention if you know what your doing you don't even need to hit to imobilize them in the case of self defense.

[† Shazi]

under normal cercumstances, i would say it is wrong to hit a woman. but lets face it, if a chick is coming at you with a knife, or any kind of weapon, i would expect you to defend yourself, regardless of what gender the person coming at you is. and of course, there's nothing wrong with spanking every now and again

[† Koga]

I would say a guy shouldnt hit a girl...but....at the same time....she shouldn't hit him either. me....I WILL if I'm pushed to it...physically. If she NEVER touches me in a violent manner...then she's good. But she for hits me in the face...we have a problem. now yes...I know...it sounds mean and all. But...if you are going to step up to a guy..who you KNOW will not harm you unless you physically provoke him...and you do it....you deserve it IMO. Doesn't mean I feel she'd deserve to get beaten to a bloody mess or something Seriously...why not just not touch each other. But to this day....I've yet to hit a girl. I got hit in the face one time and put her ass out of my car on the highway....and THAT'S another story. But its no like I hide how I feel and even told my current gf straight up. And long as you dont hit me violently...i will never harm you. And honestly even if she did..I'd try to restrain her first. I dunno, luckily I've never had to be in a situation where I had to even think of it...besides the car incident. But I'm always honest on how I feel.

[† Shazi]

I would say a guy shouldnt hit a girl...but....at the same time....she shouldn't hit him either. me....I WILL if I'm pushed to it...physically. If she NEVER touches me in a violent manner...then she's good. But she for hits me in the face...we have a problem. now yes...I know...it sounds mean and all. But...if you are going to step up to a guy..who you KNOW will not harm you unless you physically provoke him...and you do it....you deserve it IMO. Doesn't mean I feel she'd deserve to get beaten to a bloody mess or something Seriously...why not just not touch each other. But to this day....I've yet to hit a girl. I got hit in the face one time and put her ass out of my car on the highway....and THAT'S another story. But its no like I hide how I feel and even told my current gf straight up. And long as you dont hit me violently...i will never harm you. And honestly even if she did..I'd try to restrain her first. I dunno, luckily I've never had to be in a situation where I had to even think of it...besides the car incident. But I'm always honest on how I feel.

it's not harsh at all, if she hits you, you have a perfectly good reason to hit her! the only reason you should ever hit anyone is if they're threatening your safety or that of someone you love, man or woman. nothing wrong with feeling like you could hit a woman if she was putting you in danger

[DarkDream787]

Only in self defense would I do that to anyone.

[J-Lord]

I would only ever hit a girl as a form of self defence, if I felt like my life was in danger and she was willing to kill or trying to hurt me then and depending on how extreme she is trying would I retaliate with force to stop her.

Never would I hit a Girl for no reason, and I would nerver hit her for stupid reasons such as cheating, yelling at me or anything as small as that.

So yeah I would only hit them as a form of self defence, besides if they choose to challenge me to such a fight them they should be fully aware of the risks involved when going against a male. (im not saying that females are weak compared to males, I know a lot of females that would probably beat me in a fight lol and im a martial artist that works out every now and again.)

[(AC)]

I wouldent hit a girl for any reason unless my life was in danger and i had no other option than to do so for self defence.

[Leviathan]

I will be honest in answering this thread. I ain't the perfect gentleman type and have hit multiple girls in my life......but that was at least 6/7 years ago( I had a temper problem back then, you see). In present time I don't do such things. I have more control over my temper now. But still there had been occasions where I got really angry with this girl and ended up slapping her in the face. I was always ready to say sorry after that though. So here I will go with the option "A Physical Fight". I only hope no one in the forum starts to dislike me after reading this.

[J-Lord]

I will be honest in answering this thread. I ain't the perfect gentleman type and have hit multiple girls in my life......but that was at least 6/7 years ago( I had a temper problem back then, you see). In present time I don't do such things. I have more control over my temper now. But still there had been occasions where I got really angry with this girl and ended up slapping her in the face. I was always ready to say sorry after that though. So here I will go with the option "A Physical Fight". I only hope no one in the forum starts to dislike me after reading this.

Well I don't think badly of you for it. I think it's kind of alright, if your willing to apologise afterwards and if it's a once of thing. As long as your not going out of your way just to hit a girl because your angry and it's the only way to relieve you.

I feel like there are some conditions that hitting may be alright but unless it is a self defence fight with you (male) on the defence then those other conditions may be borderline wrong.

[Leviathan]

Well I don't think badly of you for it. I think it's kind of alright, if your willing to apologise afterwards and if it's a once of thing. As long as your not going out of your way just to hit a girl because your angry and it's the only way to relieve you.

I feel like there are some conditions that hitting may be alright but unless it is a self defence fight with you (male) on the defence then those other conditions may be borderline wrong.

Thanks for saying these things man. I really don't hit anyone unless he/she really starts to irritate me and doesn't know when to stop. As for physical fights, I had enough of them for one life, now I am more of a "let's talk this over shall we" guy.

[Schmitler]

[wyattearp23]

I would never hit a woman, it a chivalry thing males have inherited. The only possibility would be if she was trained fighter and challenged me. However I still would never hit a woman with a closed fist just use improvised jujitsu moves. Just my personal rule.