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Apparently driving a beat up old truck and not being able to talk is probable cause for a cop to search for marijuana. And him not finding any clearly means I must have smoked it already. 3 hours and a piss test later, I'm home, annoyed, and contemplating some kind of legal action.

 

That's fucked up, litigation time!

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Love, wtf. Why do you have to have all this power. Why do you linger around now when you are unwanted. Just let me move the fuck on already, ruining things. Why cant you just be understand and leave well enough alone? Its maddening.   Stop the ride already, I want off


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Wth am I really doing here to be honest. I don't feel like a college student. I feel like I'm a slacker amongst all these other people in this classroom. I mean the real reason I am here is just to keep abusing the U.S.'s poor system for taking care of one another. Do I really give up my mother's benefits if Istop being a full time student? Absolutely stupid. Why does stupid stuff like this work? Why can't I just wait five years, like when I'm ready to move on with life. I'm at the middle point where I don't see a point in anything. This is just absolutely silly.


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I'm sorry you feel that way, Kas! That was part of the reason why I've been putting off going to college. Not only did I not want to rack up thousands in debt for something I would very likely drop out of partway through, I still don't know what I'd want to study. A degree isn't even entirely necessary any more, considering the number of jobs you can get without a degree, to say nothing of any entrepreneurial potential. I have my GI Bill so I'll be able to go to school for free, but I still don't know what I want to do.


 


But yeah, I feel you on all that. Hope it gets better!


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After getting some last minute legal advice, I decided that I wouldn't be suing the cop, or the police department, but that I would seek an apology, and go from there. An apology is exactly what I got, and as an added bonus, the cop who pulled that bullshit has to go through mandatory sensitivity training. And the precinct captain bought Mal and I dinner. All in all, a good day.


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It was a pick your battles type situation. Yea, I might have gotten money, but I'd have spent most of it before things were over, on top of missing work for as long as I had to be in court over it. Not to mention potentially making an enemy of the entire police department. They might admit that he's an asshole and out of line, but he's their out of line asshole, and they'd most likely back him.. So it just wasn't worth fighting.


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Not really no, especially since having a police precint hate you isn't a good thing lol. You would've liked the small country town I spent a few years in as a youth, for about a 1000 people the town only had 1 police officer and he was NEVER there. He worked like an hour a day at max maybe, you could've literally do anything in the town or out of it and nothing would happen, such a pathetic officer lol.


 


Edit: Oh I forgot about my little rant about last night. So I was invited over to my sisters place who I'm not too fond of but I went because my grandfather and his wife were gonna be there. So I drive over and pull up and there isn't just my grandfather there but ALL her douchebag friends... I've mentioned them before how they should all go kill themselves to do society a favour. So yes my evening was ruined in about 5 seconds when I arrived, luckily they left towards the end of the evening.


 


I even stopped in my car and pondered turning around and going home but I knew they'd already seen me so I was obligated then to stay, gah I'm not going there anymore.


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Ok, I got something: Apparently in this country (Or just the state of California, Idk) if you miss just 1 year of highschool (For any F*ing reason) You are not allowed to continue....I took a year off because of all the damage that was done to me mentally. I've already had a meltdown at the school, didn't need to do that again, so I took a break. No school will take me since I missed that year, and I'm already in my 12th year of school. Seriously?


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There's really nothing you can do? Make up the credits or something? That's really dumb.


 


But yeah, definitely get your GED--it shouldn't be a major roadblock unless you're trying to join the Air Force or something.


 


People in general seem to be completely awful when it comes to mental health, it just makes those with issues feel about a million times worse. And they wonder why so many people are so fucked up. Like no shit, really?


 


My little brother was taken out of school for a period because he was being bullied and had a breakdown in school--broke some glass, threw his backpack around, the whole nine. He was homeschooled for the time and then reentered for the next year or semester (I can't remember, it was a few years back). And it wasn't like, "Let's try to figure out what's been happening" or "let's talk to the kids who have been bullying him". It was just, "We need to take him out of school until he learns to control himself". Really? Fucking really?


 


People really don't get it. They just spout some bullshit like, "Kids will be kids", "don't worry, they'll get over it". Ugh.


 


/rolls my eyes so hard I can see inside my skull


 


ETA: Added a video. It's about bullying. Don't read the comments on the Youtube page unless you've sufficiently steeled yourself--it's pretty much what you'd expect from people when it comes to these kinds of topics.


 



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Study up and get your GED. Then move on to college where you can actually learn something. (Or get on the job training as something that pays well/you enjoy a lot.)

 

I would, but the only place I know that could help me study and prepare.....Well, Idk what happened, they never got back to me before they were full.

 

There's really nothing you can do? Make up the credits or something? That's really dumb.

 

But yeah, definitely get your GED--it shouldn't be a major roadblock unless you're trying to join the Air Force or something.

 

People in general seem to be completely awful when it comes to mental health, it just makes those with issues feel about a million times worse. And they wonder why so many people are so fucked up. Like no shit, really?

 

My little brother was taken out of school for a period because he was being bullied and had a breakdown in school--broke some glass, threw his backpack around, the whole nine. He was homeschooled for the time and then reentered for the next year or semester (I can't remember, it was a few years back). And it wasn't like, "Let's try to figure out what's been happening" or "let's talk to the kids who have been bullying him". It was just, "We need to take him out of school until he learns to control himself". Really? Fucking really?

 

People really don't get it. They just spout some bullshit like, "Kids will be kids", "don't worry, they'll get over it". Ugh.

 

/rolls my eyes so hard I can see inside my skull

 

ETA: Added a video. It's about bullying. Don't read the comments on the Youtube page unless you've sufficiently steeled yourself--it's pretty much what you'd expect from people when it comes to these kinds of topics.

 

 

Legally I can't join the military in any form because of my mentallity.lol.

 

But yeah, as you described your brothers situation, I have been through that kind of mental (And sometimes physical) damage, and did homeschooling because of it, so I know what you mean. Sounds like he's been through hell with that crap.

 

And about the video comments, I haven't read them, but I know what you mean, I too made a video like that.....Many rude as Hell comments.

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A lot of people don't take bullying seriously, it's so frustrating.


 


I don't think I ever had it as bad as my little brother did in high school (I did cry a lot and went through a period of self harm, IDK), but I also had the fortune not to be overweight. Rather the opposite. After our parents' divorce, we kind of went separate ways as far as eating went--I stopped and he picked up the slack. It was fortunate in a way that we moved so often, because that meant not having to stay around people who have hurt us before. Granted, that also meant increasing the roster of people who can hurt us, but. There's a reason I never had much of a social life, haha.


 


Far as the military went, I almost got kicked out of basic because of my depression. It was literally one question they were losing their mind over. I eventually relented in changing my answer, but it was pretty weird.


 


If you need any help though, I don't know exactly what I can do, but we can probably figure something out. If nothing else, I'm always here to listen. And I have a lot of ties to California, I'm pretty sure one of my friends has gotten their GED out there, so they might be able to send some info.


 


I know Koby is about to take or has taken the test for his GED, he might be able to hook you up with something.


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