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my dad is a fucking bully and my stepmom blames /me/ for everything

how the fuck am i supposed to get a job when i look fucking homeless? when i have one pair of cheapass shoes that already have holes in in them, or one pair of pants? i haven't gotten a haircut in almost four years even though i've been asking?? for the last year?? i said i wanted to get a job earlier this year and they used my brother and sister against me until i stopped mentioning it and now my dad is asking me when i'm going to start looking for a job when i have /nothing/ decent to wear out

when my hair just looks like a clusterfuck all the time because cheapass shampoo is all they're willing to do and then my stepmom asks me why my hair loks so fucked up and why it looks like i don't take care of myself????????

and they won't help me get an id

so basically, i'm trapped here

any kind of financial thing involving me is my problem apparently, when i have no source or means for any kind of income

if i look for a job, i don't care about my siblings

if i don't look for a job, i'm a lazy sack of shit

it's hard to believe in any kind of choice you make when you're going to be bullied for making it or not making it. wanting to move in with a friend of mine meant that i was burning my ties with them and my siblings

asking for any kind of mental help means that i'm weak, want someone to fix my problems, and just don't want to talk to my stepmom for anything because i'd rather talk to a complete stranger than /her/

 

Gonna be quick to the punch on this, and basically I have been in a similar situation. You definatly need to get out of the situation and set the boundries with your parents. I basically cannot forgive my mother because of all the situations she threw in my lap while being angry/mad cause of this or that and providing the support so that house, electricity, phone, tv, etc etc was getting paid after the divorce with my father.

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I lived a controlled life when i was with my stepdad and mum, this one time i wasn't allowed to go to the beach (my stepdad said "you never go to the beach, how do i know you are going to the beach?") which is like WTF i don't go because you never fucking let me. as soon as i had the opportunity i moved to my dads, of whom said to me "you're and adult now, do as you will, i can't control you. just don't have sex in my house"


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"But I guess it doesn't matter. If you fear it you fear it. Most men aren't murderers, though. Thats why I find this silly"


 


Hahahahahahaha.


 


Thanks for minimising my experiences and fears, something shared by women all over, because you want to be a condescending asshole. I'm sorry you don't experience the world we do, that doesn't mean my views are invalid. Shitstain.


 


Upd8: Apparently if I don't know any rapists or murderers, I'm not supposed to be afraid of rapists and murderers.


 


Hahahahahahaha.


 


Please shove your privilege in my face some more, I love that.


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"But I guess it doesn't matter. If you fear it you fear it. Most men aren't murderers, though. Thats why I find this silly"

 

Hahahahahahaha.

 

Thanks for minimising my experiences and fears, something shared by women all over, because you want to be a condescending asshole. I'm sorry you don't experience the world we do, that doesn't mean my views are invalid. Shitstain.

 

Upd8: Apparently if I don't know any rapists or murderers, I'm not supposed to be afraid of rapists and murderers.

 

Hahahahahahaha.

 

Please shove your privilege in my face some more, I love that.

Wait what? Did I miss something?

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Get a haircut. (◡‿◡✿)


 


Post a picture on Facebook. (˘⌣˘✿)


 


Someone says I looked better with my hair long. (◕‿◕✿)


 


That's nice, no one asked you. (◉◞౪◟◉✿)


 


Die in a fire. (⊙ω⊙✿)


 


I will be happy with my appearance, with or without your approval. (◕ヮ◕✿)


 


Stop being a terrible human being. (・o・✿)


 


You shitstain. (◡‿◡✿)


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I too have a list unfortunately not on my work computer. 


I should really dropbox that file. 


 


This will have to do


 


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Ohhhh so what I'm about to say could actually go in 3 threads.  This thread, the weather thread, and the what did you do today thread.


 


So yeah had what I think was the w o r s t  p i c n i c  e v e r.  My club on campus had a little end of the semester picnic thing today.  You know those fun little get togethers where you bask in the sun eating sandwiches and other fun things.


 


Well nooope.  It decided to be like hurricane gale force winds and cloudy.  Plates were flying, drinks were spilt, and napkins turned into kites.  People brought badminton stuff so we tried that for a few seconds. Ahahaha yeah you can guess the results of that.  Then we tried volleyball.  This other guy and I were the only ones who really knew what we were doing.  So we'd hit it then others would go for it but miss really bad or they would jump for it.  So it was a lot of running back in forth to make up for the others.  


 


Speaking of others there was hardly anyone there.  Our club has kinda died down since it's the end of the semester and finals are starting.  Also I think most people thought it was going to rain (thank goodness it didn't lol).  So it was only a couple of us there.


 


Then everyone left real fast since the wind was getting really annoying I guess.  I didn't get any hugs. ಠ╭╮ಠ


 


...


 


I-I need a hug. :<

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