KaoclazmMJR Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 Oh...........................k Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Emotional Outlet Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 No I didn't get the "skinny chicks" thing cause I thought you had a BF?Also, no I do not get what you mean by "you get things in places you don't expect"?This is a crazy question to ask. Is the concept of being bisexual foreign to you or do you just not see Shazi as being "that way"? And your response is less than encouraging, haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Shazi Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 i've been told that "bisexuality doesn't exist" before... but that isn't true, i like the female form, i am attracted to it, and at the same time i am attracted to the male form as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Emotional Outlet Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 It is a depressing statement to hear from anyone. I remember being told once to just "pick a hole", as if it were that easy. People are people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Shazi Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 lets face it, people are becoming more and more ambiguous in their sexual preferences as homosexuality becomes more and more accepted. eventually it's going to get to the stage where everyone is bi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoclazmMJR Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 This is a crazy question to ask. Is the concept of being bisexual foreign to you or do you just not see Shazi as being "that way"? And your response is less than encouraging, haha.I was not being judgemental I just didn't consider the possibility because I have never been exposed to it before.Plus 19 is a little early to be completely sure of your sexuality isn't it?"eventually it's going to get to the stage where everyone is bi"That is what Freud predicted but what does that say about the nature of relationships? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Shazi Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 no, i don't think so... i know what i like, what has age got to do with it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoclazmMJR Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 no, i don't think so... i know what i like, what has age got to do with it?Because you have to experience things before you can know whether or not you really like them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Shazi Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 funny thing about that is, i have. so just because i am 19 that doesn't mean i haven't experienced things like that before? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Emotional Outlet Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 ...So she experienced being with a woman and liked it. She experienced being with a man and liked it. What more is there to it? Maybe I am confused, but it seems simple to me.Plus, it doesn't take much thought to think, "Am I attracted to women? Their faces, their bodies? Okay. Am I attracted to men? Their faces? Their bodies?"EDIT: Okay, I am 21 and am quite comfortable with my sexuality. I also believe that sexuality is fluid and shifts as you age, but that doesn't mean that what you experience now is irrelevant because it might change later. It may not change at all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Shazi Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 there was a lot of confusion when i was 15, but 4 years on i have experienced a lot of things.... and some i liked, some i didn't and i came to a conclusion. what more do i need to do to be able to say i am bi? do i have to be over a certain age? do i have to have had more than one serious partner? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoclazmMJR Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 funny thing about that is, i have. so just because i am 19 that doesn't mean i haven't experienced things like that before?Oh? Nvm I just though it was strange for people to have had that many intimate encounters by the time they are 19, no judgement it was just a foreign idea to me :|On an off topic: In your opinion what is the purpose of sexual intercourse? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Emotional Outlet Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 I would also like to know what is necessary to achieve this, because it isn't the first time I've run into someone who didn't take me very seriously, haha. It really shouldn't be that big of a deal.In other news, I have sushi! Om nom nom. Delicious sweet potato roll. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lemmingllama Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 Everyone is bisexual to a degree, just that most people have a dominant gender that they prefer. For example, I prefer women since I am more sexually attracted to them and I think that they are prettier than any male could be. However, if you were completely straight then you could not stand the sight of the same gender in a sexual way, so porn would really suck Also, its so weird to see you without three tags Shazi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Shazi Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 to express love for another person. that is why i do it. but there is a certain, pleasure to it, and i understand why people do it simpley for pleasure as well.instincly we do it to reproduce, but since we are sentient beings, we have to option of pleasure, and loveLOL i know right Llama!, it's weird opening the homepage and not being able to see the staff room too XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Emotional Outlet Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 Now we'll gossip about you all the time!Just kidding, it's still really boring in there, haha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lemmingllama Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 I would say that at this point, most people do it for pleasure. After all, we are a consumer capitalist society, so instant gratification is a byproduct of that. So lots of sex for the sake of sex However, I personally reserve sex for people that I actually care about, since it cannot be done properly unless you actually know and understand the person you are with. I would also like to know what is necessary to achieve this, because it isn't the first time I've run into someone who didn't take me very seriously, haha. It really shouldn't be that big of a deal.And really it just should be that you have had multiple experiences with both genders. That way you can decide which was more appealing. And maybe also multiple partners in each gender so that you wont have a bias Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoclazmMJR Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 I believe personally the sexual intercourse is reserved for the purpose of procreation. That is not to say that the presence of pleasure and the intimacy are wrong rather that if the possibility of procreation is precluded from a particular sexual encounter that said encounter is by definition animalistic and intended for self-gratification. Following from this definition contraceptive methods would be seen as wrong in my eyes because they turn a loving act of creation into a base ritual intended to satisfy one's own desires because one lacks the self-discipline to keep one's own urges under control.There is nothing in this world that I hate more than hedonism.This is simply my opinion and it is not intended to offend anyone so I apologize in retrospect if it does"Everyone is bisexual to a degree, just that most people have a dominant gender that they prefer."I am a living contradiction to this statement Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† Shazi Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 my personal preferences change depending on "who i'm with." right now, i prefer males. since i have a bf, i'm particularly attracted to him. a few years back i had a gf (for like a week, turned out she was a hoebag) i was more attracted to girls.but, all in all, people are sexy. what more can i say lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaoclazmMJR Posted March 14, 2012 Report Share Posted March 14, 2012 my personal preferences change depending on "who i'm with." right now, i prefer males. since i have a bf, i'm particularly attracted to him. a few years back i had a gf (for like a week, turned out she was a hoebag) i was more attracted to girls.but, all in all, people are sexy. what more can i say lolDoes your bf know about your preferences? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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