The Life of A Girl (18+)

[seirachan]

It is hard to grow up as a woman. I'm not being sexist I'm just stating What I've had to experience and MANY other girls.

Many girls have been molested and raped while young. There is always some 30 year man out there out to get some little girl. Maybe even guys in high school just raping a girl. It happens all the time. I've only met one girl who wasn't because she was sheltered. She was very lucky. I've even meet a man who raped a girl but he regrets it.

Guy's are naturally built stronger then woman. Children are too young to understand. But I know how wrong it feels. It is way to common among women to be raped and molested. Young or old.

In my experience I'm gonna skip a lot because its not really needed but My mother didn't believe me or the police. Because it was my moms friend. I got talked so much down and warned that i would go to jail if i couldn't prove it. Told i would spend my birthday behind bars. It's really hard for a kid too take. I knew he would do it to other girls. But i had no one to back me up. My mom was telling me not too because of his son. Why should I let a kid grow up with a child molester? But i was alone in this. I couldn't go to court.

these things are hard to live with rape and molestation needs to stop. It doesn't matter how young or old a girl is some time in her life there's a pretty big chance its gonna happen or someones gonna try. I hate most men because of it. It took me a long time to ever make a guy friend. He ended up being almost a saint lol and made me realize not every guy is bad and i know I'm in a pretty bad town. Still this is way too common.

But just because it's hard and this happens doesn't mean just because your born a girl the world owes you everything. I see lots of girls prance around like they own everything and just treat everybody badly. Never be a bad person because something bad as happened to you. You only make yourself worse then those who did it to you. The world doesn't owe you anything because something happened to you.

[SenSei]

For me it's versa, the girls get horny and wants me badly, in my region, my first time was with an older woman, I believe I was 18 at that time and she was 24, and she lied, she told me she was 19, and I got raped by her... Not all the mans are the same, there exists some exceptions...

That's why I got married, to escape from those sins, and I really love my woman...

But you have a good point anyway ...

[Vael]

wow 2 very different results.

in the end all it really boils down to in the end is, some men can be dicks, others nice guys, some women can be bitches, others nice women. In the end were all different, living in different regions, neighborhoods, circumstances, some men suffer in poverty and joblessness whilst women are given everything like princesses, or some men may bully the weak because that makes them feel tough, while a woman may actually stop those men, while a Woman could work hard and climb the ladder in her business and succeed in life, a man could lose everything and vise versa.

I hear what your saying seria, and I get where your coming from, but heres where I'm coming from, life is crap, we all suffer eventually, the severity varies, how often varies, who, when, where and how varies but we do suffer, men and women alike.

just so you know this is my belief of this world.

[Drakun]

that is so true in the end all have diferent points of view some of us gets pshio wich is not good so it has to end i wish they can make a new law about this but in the end is all the same maybe the human brain should function on diferent things

[seirachan]

For me it's versa, the girls get horny and wants me badly, in my region, my first time was with an older woman, I believe I was 18 at that time and she was 24, and she lied, she told me she was 19, and I got raped by her... Not all the mans are the same, there exists some exceptions...

That's why I got married, to escape from those sins, and I really love my woman...

But you have a good point anyway ...

Yeah I know some men get raped too, All rape should really be stopped. Most rape victims are too scared to go to police or get told down like me. If something does not have straight proof they don't care or don't act. Some men don't think a guy can be raped by a girl and laugh about it but its still pretty easy.

I found out the guy who did that to me did get charged a few times by other girls but sadly hes still not in jail. My brother goes to a card tournament and hes there. So long as hes not making friends with the guy I'll tolerate it. But if he does I'm gonna kill my brother but i doubt it hes way to old.

[nellawin]

relationships are not based on sex, cause i'll admit women ARE stronger than men. Sure I may have killed some people but women they always have to endure their period and when they get pregnant they have to carry a kid inside of them for nine months and go through one hell of a delivery process.

for me sex is just one way of expressing feelings and emotions but be that as it may there are a lot of things in a relationship than JUST sex. right?

[AaronScythe]

Blaming all men for the downfall of one is a blanket solution.

If an african male broke into your home once, would you say that all of them are thieves?

If you cannot learn to differentiate, then you are using your past as an excuse.

Take it from a fellow "victim", use what has happened to become a stronger person, and work on making it harder for that to happen in the new world that you help forge.

[seirachan]

Blaming all men for the downfall of one is a blanket solution.

If an african male broke into your home once, would you say that all of them are thieves?

If you cannot learn to differentiate, then you are using your past as an excuse.

Take it from a fellow "victim", use what has happened to become a stronger person, and work on making it harder for that to happen in the new world that you help forge.

Who ever said I was blaming all the men, I did when I was 12 but I've learned over time not all men are bad. People have already related in the topic that it happens to guys too and i agree

[PseudoSage]

Sounds rough. Glad I was born with a "Y" chromosome.....Kidding! I jest!

In all seriousness, I have known from personal experience what it is like to both have a friend who experienced this and a family friend accused of committing such acts. In the end it goes down to "he said/she said" semantics unless it was somebody you didn't know. And that's the thing isn't it, it's majority of the time somebody close to the victim so the situation turns into who is better liked by their friends. Sad, but it seems to be true in some cases.

I think the worst part of it is that the victim of such acts, from my experience, seems to have a subtle shift in how much they can trust their own friends and family. Either one of them committed it or did not stand up for them to see justice done. On the other side those wrongly accused usually are branded with a stigma that can cost them everything. It's lose-lose situations.

............drunk chicks who dress promiscuously are cool though. They totally wanted it, otherwise they would wear that or go to that bar with all those guys around.

(Kidding! Sarcasm!)

That's what happens though. Some guys think it's not a big deal, it's just sex. Men love sex. Sex doesn't usually cause men pain or discomfort if it is forced upon them even with no lubrication. They don't see why women "get their panties in a bunch" over it if the chick is totally wasted (date rape), or if you are just asking for something in return for helping her (coercion/manipulation to rape), or in some extreme cases why molesting little girls. Sex is good and can do no harm.....for men.

(And before you get started, yes I realize that sex can hurt men especially of the "prison" variety. What I'm saying is that 99% of the time it doesn't and when it does it is usually a discomfort that fades quickly or mild tearing in rare cases.)

[IHAFUF]

Pedophiles, rapists , molesters , perverted boys, and perverted old men/women. They are just sick people. Really, I just don't understand why you would sexually harass someone because of their sex or age. I bet you all pedophiles, rapists etc think ," Oh yer, they can't do anything. There too weak to fight back." Some of them are like mental and that's really bad because they don;t even know what they are doing. Parents should always be looking over their children until they are 18, even then. Some people just don't know what to do in these situations. You can never trust anyone. I hear of the new some times parents rape their own children..... Seriously WTF that is just... Frekain Shame on you. I wonder to myself sometimes, why is our world so futched up? Nothing is ever perfect. But I don't really think that there are that many pedos and stuff, if you ever come across one your just really unlucky. If anyone was to do something to my older sister I would literally kill them. Not all men are lustful, some don't know how to control there feelings. But I do. When I'm around a girl and I think dirty about them it just gives me shivers. Like today this girl was leaning on me to get something and I was like to her ", Bro can you like not do that." :L yer. But yer some guys/men can be dirty/perverted , they just can't control there wants/emotions. I'd say some when are very arrogant. They look down on women and children. This is just my opinion from the observations and everyday activities/events I encounter. Females who have been sexual harassed or raped I can tell, they have a feeling of danger and that they are not safe around men etc, a feeling of been insecure it must be scary! Btw how you say children don't understand They do cuz im only 13. I view the world from every side and pretty much understand. You could say I see both outside and inside of a box.

[lokisminion]

When I was 17 a guy tried to grope me after I had drank a six pack and was half in the bag. I was 6'2" and about 180lbs at the time so it didn't turn out like he thought. He was bigger than me and older so it was dicey for a minute. It opened my eyes to the reality that anyone can be a victim if they are not in control of the situation. Many people are only good because they don't want to pay the consequences for misbehavior. Its sad to say, but relying on the goodness of others is a recipe for disaster.

[seirachan]

Pedophiles, rapists , molesters , perverted boys, and perverted old men/women. They are just sick people. Really, I just don't understand why you would sexually harass someone because of their sex or age. I bet you all pedophiles, rapists etc think ," Oh yer, they can't do anything. There too weak to fight back." Some of them are like mental and that's really bad because they don;t even know what they are doing. Parents should always be looking over their children until they are 18, even then. Some people just don't know what to do in these situations. You can never trust anyone. I hear of the new some times parents rape their own children..... Seriously WTF that is just... Frekain Shame on you. I wonder to myself sometimes, why is our world so futched up? Nothing is ever perfect. But I don't really think that there are that many pedos and stuff, if you ever come across one your just really unlucky. If anyone was to do something to my older sister I would literally kill them. Not all men are lustful, some don't know how to control there feelings. But I do. When I'm around a girl and I think dirty about them it just gives me shivers. Like today this girl was leaning on me to get something and I was like to her ", Bro can you like not do that." :L yer. But yer some guys/men can be dirty/perverted , they just can't control there wants/emotions. I'd say some when are very arrogant. They look down on women and children. This is just my opinion from the observations and everyday activities/events I encounter. Females who have been sexual harassed or raped I can tell, they have a feeling of danger and that they are not safe around men etc, a feeling of been insecure it must be scary! Btw how you say children don't understand They do cuz im only 13. I view the world from every side and pretty much understand. You could say I see both outside and inside of a box.

It's not that they don't know how to control it's that they just don't want to. They wanna have fun at someone Else's expense. They don't give a damn.

I could never hurt someone like that. The thought has come across my mind but I will never do it. What pains me the most in the world is hurting someone else and to do it to that extent is just shameful.

[lilwill00]

@IHAFUF if your just 13 why do you have your age as 25??

also if you really are just 13 your posting in an 18+ thread..

[seirachan]

@IHAFUF if your just 13 why do you have your age as 25??

also if you really are just 13 your posting in an 18+ thread..

I only named it that as a caution to people who don't wanna know about sexual things. It seems IHAFUF already knows about they kind of stuff so I don't see any harm. But the age set is a throw off.

[IHAFUF]

It's not that they don't know how to control it's that they just don't want to. They wanna have fun at someone Else's expense. They don't give a damn.

I could never hurt someone like that. The thought has come across my mind but I will never do it. What pains me the most in the world is hurting someone else and to do it to that extent is just shameful.

Hmmm, that is true. I hate hurting people also, makes me feel really guilty at times seeing someone cry because I did something that cause them that pain.