Arian Posted May 17, 2014 Report Share Posted May 17, 2014 (edited) Now let's be clear, I'm talking about an ideal relationship, not an out-of-this-world fantasy. My question pertains to how would you want your woman or man to treat you, how you would take care of them, what activities would you like to partake in, would it be kinky, etc. and you're also welcome to express would you'd like him/her to look like. Just don't say that your ideal relationship is being Hugh Hefner or something. I'd like a woman who's mature and adult-like, but also has a silly inner-child inside of her. I'd like it if we'd be able to talk about anything, especially our problems. Hopefully we'd be able to support each other and work together in almost anything we do, having said that, we wouldn't have to do everything together, such as special interest and events, as we may not fit in to all of each others' things. She does not have to like my hobbies, but at the very least, she could tolerate it and leave me to my devices. On a personal note, I would be accepting of anyone's personal interests. We would be able to get along and talk about things like friends, such as laughing and sharing stories. I would hope my series of my anxiety issues and slight mental deficiencies do not drive her crazy (although it would probably be inevitable). As far as the sex life is concerned, I would never insist on doing any particular sexual thing to upset her, but it would be a plus if she asked me what I wanted. Also, if we can try things in different places, and tried outfits, that's something I'd also like. I'd love to give her massages, listen to her troubles, anything that I can do to cheer her up after a bad day. And I know this sounds cliche, but I suck at cooking and cleaning, so I would love it if she took care of that. I'd be willing to do anything else she might need, especially running the errands. Well, that's all I can think of for now, I'd love to hear what you guys are looking for. Edited May 17, 2014 by Arian 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† LimitLess Posted May 17, 2014 Report Share Posted May 17, 2014 Hell I already got a girl, we're going through some problems but we'll work it out. But I'd want my girl to be shy but not a pushover. She also needs to be an out going person who's willing to do fun things.She also has to know how to cook because I also suck at that. She must also worry about me more than anybody else. I know it's a little much, but cmon that's what every guy wants, to be the center of attention in the girls life. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavenlyClassic Posted May 17, 2014 Report Share Posted May 17, 2014 (edited) bleh Edited June 8, 2014 by HeavenlyClassic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arian Posted May 17, 2014 Author Report Share Posted May 17, 2014 (edited) I know it's a little much, but cmon that's what every guy wants, to be the center of attention in the girls life. Absolutely right. That's something I forgot to mention, if we were ever apart or something and she said she was thinking of me, it would make me melt. Although I'm by no means the jealous type if that's what you were implying. Edited May 17, 2014 by Arian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† LimitLess Posted May 17, 2014 Report Share Posted May 17, 2014 XD I am the jealous type, though I wouldn't show it, if it came to that. But yes, if she was worrying about me when we were apart I'd be like " oh hell yeah" XD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TRUNKSvsCELL Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 I'm looking for THE ONE. Which means i'm looking for the guy i know that will stay submissively monogamous to ONLY ME. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RabbitBones Posted June 3, 2014 Report Share Posted June 3, 2014 To be perfectly clear, I think I gave up on even attempting another relationship at this point. But really, were I to stumble onto someone who actually made me rethink this, they'd have to be intelligent. Not talking genius, I just need to be able to have actual conversations that don't always revolve around food or WoW/LoL. They need to be into anime/video games or at least willing to listen to me ramble about them. I sort of like a bit of possessiveness, as weird as that may sound. Not controlling, just... it's apparent they want me to themselves. Um. Understanding. Of me and my handful of issues. That's probably the biggest one. And 10,000 bonus points if they know how to ride a horse. Not necessary, I just hardly meet anyone who's not afraid of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Posted June 5, 2014 Report Share Posted June 5, 2014 I'm married..lolBut ideally, there has to be honesty, trust, no cheating And..the guy has to be sincere, loving, caring, sweet, kind, romantic and supportive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arian Posted June 5, 2014 Author Report Share Posted June 5, 2014 I'm married..lol That's a good point, so if you're in a relationship, you can say how you would want it to be in a perfect world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Posted June 5, 2014 Report Share Posted June 5, 2014 Hmm okIn a perfect world, I want him to be absolutly honest, I want no arguing to a point where it gets really bad. I also don't want him to call me bad names..better compromising would also be good, with anything we both don't agree on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RabbitBones Posted June 5, 2014 Report Share Posted June 5, 2014 This might be slightly off-topic. Slightly. I'm not sure.But am I the only one who doesn't care for pet names?I don't like being called "baby" or "kitten" or "hun" or anything of the sort. I kind of adjusted to "my dear" because lots of people have called me that. Friends/Relatives/Significant others. But that's about it.Might as well add that to my list of things under what I wouldn't want. In a perfect world, I want him to be absolutly honest, I want no arguing to a point where it gets really bad. I also don't want him to call me bad names..better compromising would also be good, with anything we both don't agree on. Compromise is pretty essential in relationships, actually. Forgot about that one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† LimitLess Posted June 5, 2014 Report Share Posted June 5, 2014 I hate giving pet names, I just stick to calling her by her first name. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragooon Posted June 6, 2014 Report Share Posted June 6, 2014 My waifu pulling me into the 2D world so I can be with her forever @u@ 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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† LimitLess Posted June 6, 2014 Report Share Posted June 6, 2014 Tell me when you've entered the 2D world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dragooon Posted June 6, 2014 Report Share Posted June 6, 2014 I'm still waiting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arian Posted June 6, 2014 Author Report Share Posted June 6, 2014 It'll be hard for him to do that from there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RabbitBones Posted June 6, 2014 Report Share Posted June 6, 2014 I'd be cool with 2D. Orihara, man. Izaya Orihara. That's all I'm sayin'. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizuki Himeji Posted June 24, 2014 Report Share Posted June 24, 2014 Well to put it frank relationships are a waste of time in my eyes i mean i never know i might meet the perfect guy one day but i`l believe it when it happens.But the guy would have to like what i like or at least let me watch it and not complain,he has to not be forceful otherwise i`l run away and panic and if i ever have any problems he would have to be supportive and not criticize me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
† LimitLess Posted June 24, 2014 Report Share Posted June 24, 2014 Congratz on living the rest of your life single Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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