ex-girlfriends/boyfriends?

[seirachan]

got any story's to tell? These things are pretty interesting to know. But you don't have to share if you don't want too. Some bring you to tears, some bring stupid laughter ect. ect. People say first comes Denial, then Anger then Acceptance. May not be for all chases depending on the circumstances.

I've only had 2 serious relationships not counting the one I'm in now. I'll start off one by one.

My first relationship was DJ non serious. It was a funny learning experience. It hurt then when it ended but since I never slept with him I can look past it and if i ever met him again we could still be friends. He wasn't that bad just a normal stupid weed smoker in high school. Broke up with me saying he never liked me to begin with.

My second relationship was Joe, Nothing happened for two weeks. I broke up with him for someone else, the guy was creppy that lasted 2 seconds till he asked me to dance naked for him... Then i got back with Joe. Then he broke up with me lying that he tried to kill himself and my Ex was being a part of it. He turned out to be a real jerk. But I'll deny to death that I kissed him months later only to be shot down as he dated my friend. I honestly didn't care after the kiss but my friend kept trying to tell me to get over it when I already was. They didn't last long together.

My third was my worst. I was a stupid Naive little girl. All the things I've lost to someone who didn't deserve me. At first he seemed like a nice guy and my smile would never fade. But two weeks later he slept with me and from that point on.. It Was Hell. He treated me like crap and at every moment proved me wrong of everything I thought he was. I moved in with him 2 months later figuring my life was already over because he took my cherry. But he took more then that. He forced me to get a job. I had once called the money i earned my own he yelled at me and said, "NO IT"S OUR MONEY!". He had no job, all he did was sit on his ass and play warcraft. As time flew buy it got worse and worse. He made me get a shared bank account and spent my money on anything he wanted. He was even taking $100 saying it was for his grandparents But I doubt he gave them anything. He had lied to me a lot about things, even said him and his friend were gonna go on a date with some girls cause she wouldn't date his friend if he didn't go then said it was a joke. But lets skip a few other things basically I was being treated like crap. Went on for two years and ended up hitting me.

His other friend found an interest in me. Made out with me in his car. He took me home and ya know. My heart was just reaching out to anyone who wanted to give me something, It was a mistake I was in a weak state. For 3 days I was alone with my boyfriend. I told him that I'm leaving him. After all the times he told me to leave and hit me he started crying. I had no sympathy for someone like that. He asked me if i cheated on him. I didn't answer. He begged me and begged me. I didn't say anything and somehow I ended up staying, Somehow I was still with him. I didn't want to be. He found that man I had cheated on him with. Punched him and gave him a bloody nose. I had to watch and cry. Because I Caused This. For two weeks, I caused this. I had to go. No excuse. So I did, he cried again. I remembered when he hurt me. I just left.

But the stupidest thing I did was phone the other guy. I ended up living with him. My now ex had taken $700 out of my bank account. I came back for my things because he had boxed them. 99% of my things weren't there. Anything of value was not there. My two computers, My Xbox 360 with all it's games, My DS with all my games, The Wii games I bought ect. I was too weak hearted to barge in there and take my things. Tell his grandparents he's been lying all this time and hasn't had a job, just leching off of me. I was too weak and I'll always regret it.

So I was living with the other guy. I didn't belong there but i stuck with it. He wasn't very good. Just a hentai addict who's obsession was sex. He didn't really love me, those words were tainted by his voice. I knew he never once stood up for me when my ex was making fun of me to everyone. "love" was nowhere to be found. We had moved out half a year later. I looked up an old friend from the life my ex had torn me from. He lived just down the street from me. My BF was mad. He talked with my friend because he thought I was cheating on him but I wasn't. It was never enough. This lasted 3 months. My friend had enough. I asked for too much of him. I was still recovering from everything. I didn't have a single friend for 3 years. I was too upfront, but with the help of my now boyfriend I made it through. I left my friend alone.

My bf kept getting mad at everything and was kicking me out of the house. Once he slept with me, said we shouldn't be together. Not paying attention to the fact that I didn't cheat on him and called the cops on me. I was stuck at my brothers disgusting house with 6 cats, the house stank really bad while everything was dirty, the walls, everything. I slept on the couch going to school and work. I was so sick I could barely walk from so much lack of sleep doing everything I could. I had even came back and gave him a good birthday only to get kicked out again. Then weeks later he came to my school with Flowers and a love letter begging me to come back. I said No. He told me wanted to Marry me, I said No. I got mad at him for a bunch of clothes going missing after I moved out being my favorite clothes. Being with how sick he was he probably kept them and wanked off with them.

Months later he tried to sue me over the house because I didn't pay rent and he didn't have a job. I explained I was kicked out and wasn't of age to own the house. He had also sent me a text message that made zero sense. I sent him one saying, "?". So he replied saying that was meant for his new girlfriend(90% of it not making sense mind you I had to ask my brothers gf what it said). So I replied, "I Hope you and your boyfriend are happy together" cause obliviously it's bullshit to try and get me. So even after one year every time he sees me he gets mad like a child, everything was his fault he could have been with me but he was too much of a child. Last time I was in walmart he stalked me looking at purses. But I was out quick enough thankfully.

GOD that took forever

[† The Joker]

ouch! sounds like you had it bad seria, hope everythings better now

I've only had one serious relationship, and that lasted 3 years, but was ended when I found out that my gf was seeing someone else, which resulted in me kicking her out of the place we were renting, and her own freinds taking most of her possetions from the house and gave them to a charity shop.

Anyway, a few days ago, I had to go to court to give evidence against some guy who had stolen her car. This was back when we were still together, and resulted in me chasing after the guy and helping the police to stop him (my old karting skills came in very handy that night, as the chase lasted about 40 minutes, 30 before we were joined by a police car!).

While I was sitting waiting for preceedings to start, my ex walks past, I see her eyes glance over to me, then look back ahead to the coffee machine and blanked me completely. After a few minutes, she came back and started going on about how she didn't need me to give evidence, that I was a waste of space etc. I just looked at her and said. "I'm only here to make sure one piece of dirt gets put behind bars, and right now, I don't want to be looking at another". Harsh, but true.

[seirachan]

ouch! sounds like you had it bad seria, hope everythings better now

I've only had one serious relationship, and that lasted 3 years, but was ended when I found out that my gf was seeing someone else, which resulted in me kicking her out of the place we were renting, and her own freinds taking most of her possetions from the house and gave them to a charity shop.

Anyway, a few days ago, I had to go to court to give evidence against some guy who had stolen her car. This was back when we were still together, and resulted in me chasing after the guy and helping the police to stop him (my old karting skills came in very handy that night, as the chase lasted about 40 minutes, 30 before we were joined by a police car!).

While I was sitting waiting for preceedings to start, my ex walks past, I see her eyes glance over to me, then look back ahead to the coffee machine and blanked me completely. After a few minutes, she came back and started going on about how she didn't need me to give evidence, that I was a waste of space etc. I just looked at her and said. "I'm only here to make sure one piece of dirt gets put behind bars, and right now, I don't want to be looking at another". Harsh, but true.

Sheesh she cheated on you and shes mad? sounds like a bitch. Good for you throwing that back in her face. I'm normally not fast enough too.

[IHAFUF]

I was only ever in one relationship. You could say I had the girl every boy in my school dreamed of having. We only lasted for around I think three/four months. We never had a fight or argued. She was a really sweet girl, and her family was really messed up but. Like everyone in her family was really strict and stuff because her aunt got raped which was really sad to hear and disturbing, Well she was drugged. Her parents argued a lot. So I always treated her kindly and never made her upset. She only lived three blocks away from me. We only broke up because her cousin found out we were dating and told her mum. Her mum then called me up and told me off. Soon after she moved away for two reasons: Her dad got job somewhere house and obviously away from me. She told me her mum said she could never see or talk to me again, kinda pissed me off and pissed my mum off since her mum told me off which she had no right to. We didn't break up straight away but after a couple of months her mum told me off she broke up with me because we nearly really saw or talked to each other again. I didn't really get sad or anything because our bond wasn't really strong as it was before. But I still know that she still loves me because she tells me sometimes. Since then she hasn't gone out with any other guy nor have I. She told me she only wants to be with me. But then I don't really like her anymore, just friends.

@Seirachan Wow, your story was really sad. Like you meet so many jerks and d1ckheads and those "typical" people who just use you and the desperate type of people. Its really hard to find the perfect person for yourself.

[† The Joker]

trust me, she turned big time when I found out about her affair, almost like a completely different person... still, single lifes not so bad

[† Irish]

4 years single now... Hating it... eh, you get used to it after a while though, she dumped me then realized she wanted me after she hooked up with an asshole.... we dated for 4 years and after we broke up it killed me...