I need Love advice ...

[neverender]

okay. I have a problem. I met this guy. He's absolutely in love with me (I'm dating him). I Love him. I love him romantically, but I love somebody else more. But the guy I love more than him is strait. ... so I can't have him.

okay, it's hard to talk about people like this. so I'm giving them names. I'll call the one I'm dating Charlie, and the one I love more than the one I'm dating Chris.

anyway. ...

Chris flirts with me a lot and stuff. He's REALLY REALLY sweet, and I can talk to him about almost anything (other than this of coarse) ... he knows I like him, or at least he did last year, and he's cool with it.

Charlie is sweet too, he spends a lot of money on me, which makes me feel a little bit like a whore. but when I see him I can't help but think about Chris. He's definately better looking than chris, but that really doesn't matter to me. ...

So I feel bad dating Charlie, since all I can think about is chris. Should I break up with charlie? ... If I had a chance with chris I would, even if it was a slight chance, because I'd consider that cheeting. But I don't have a chance with chris. ... but I still feel bad.

anyway. I didn't realize I still love chris untill yesterday. I was actually here, ... anyway what happened to make me realize that doesn't really matter. ... it's a long story. ...

btw: chris knows about charlie, but charlie doesn't know about chris.

[† shinji]

...

i'm assuming ur a guy right.?

well; the main thing to do is be honest with Charlie. I cannot stand people who are in a relationship to be dishonest with each other. Whatever happens when you tell Charlie; will happen. Just go with the flow.

[neverender]

... yhea, I'm a guy. ... ( "But the guy I love more than him is strait. ... so I can't have him." ... this wouldn't make sense otherwise )

I guess I should tell charlie. That would definitely make me feel better. and if he dumps me for it then it really wasn't meant to be. I won't feel bad at all.