I personally think that on, some topics, you people overthink them. I have a story to prove my point. i met a girl when i was still a virgin and i waited six months after i decided i was "in love" with her to have sex. expecting it to be some great life changing experience. although it was enjoyable i was sorrowfully disappointed. especially when i found out two days later that after she took my virginity she went over to some other guys house and had sex with him. Sex in my mind is really nothing special and after as of late ive adopted a very 60's attitude towards sex whenever, wherever, whoever. but hey thats just me.