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Noticed this place needed some green. Or I'm just not around when the green banner rotates2 points
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Glad to see you back Arian. I've kinda heard about this disorder, its basically OC(I think). I(on certain occassions) felt this way. With the first part, you felt that something that made you special or important was taken away by somebody else. Now you feel angry and frustrated that it has happened. You despise the person even though in your heart you know shouldn't. I myself also feel anxiety and anger when this happens. You referring to it as stupid, but this topic suggests otherwise. You yourself believe the whole situation to be pointless, but yet you still make a topic asking us why is it that you feel this way and whether we may also experience this. Honestly these types of situations can lead to depression or I'm not sure if it has already lead to that. The "don't give a fuck" attitude that Natalie mentioned does not actually help you. The truth is we all have feelings, we can try to hide it in that attitude(much easier on the internet) but you are lying to yourself. If it does bother you, don't pretend that it doesn't. Rather, try to make sense of it, justify the reason for that feeling, and if it doesn't make sense then you have to let yourself realize that this situation was just a senseless and unfortunate circumstance. I can't say for certain though, the "I don't give a fuck" attitude did not work for me unless I actually did not give a fuck about it which is when the "I don't give a fuck" attitude is legit. However, the biggest problem is dwelling on those feelings(he stole my project and now people think it's his own work and not mine) which in turn create new unjustifiable feelings( I don't belong in this world, I'm better of dead, nobody likes me etc.) It's tough to deal with it and could lead to depression which is obviously serious and you need professional help. Try to deal with it while it's in its first stages otherwise you gonna suffer much more. I fortunately did not let my anxiety and anger get the better of me and I will cope with it if that feeling hits me in the future. I think I might have just unintentionally mimicked what Natalie posted above. But this is from my experience in this situation. For example(from my own experience), I use to provide my friends with most of the downloads I would get. It gave me a sense of purpose to be a part of that group, "The bro who gets all the latest stuff for us, he's the best". Now comes a dick head of a friend who finally has more data and internet speed than myself and provides even more downloads for our group of friends. Now I feel like I'm not needed, that my sense of purpose in the group is gone. Nobody asks me for stuff anymore, because dick head is providing them with all they want and they get it a day faster(fucking seriously). I felt anxiety, anger and frustration. I felt worthless, like a fucking piece of trash. I couldn't stand to be with him and the rest of my friends. I dwelled on it over and over and I felt even worse. So I said fuck all and I looked at the bright side. Now they don't have to nag me for their pathetic shit. I can download all the shit I want without worrying about theirs. I felt better within a couple of weeks and now dick head after a year is now the reserved asshole and nobody asks anybody else for downloads, In fact, they(sometimes) ask me for downloads still but not most of the time. They don't ask dick head for downloads anymore. As to why I referred to dick head as dick head well, he kinda put it on himself lol. Happy ending! Although not everything has a postive side to it but it worked for me.2 points
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DaVinci's Demons to end after season 3 DaVinci's Demons will come to an end after the third season which is due to be shown on Starz in October. The network have said that the previously announced third season of the drama will be the last to be produced. Starz managing director Carmi Zlotnik said: “The steadfast fans of Da Vinci’s Demons have been asking about the next installment of this story and we’re excited to roll it out. David Goyer brought us a plan to portray the unknown early years of a genius and we think the fans will enjoy this final chapter which segues into the da Vinci that history knows. John Shiban has done a tremendous job of building on past seasons and by showing how da Vinci matures as his challenges grow." David Goyer said: "While ending Leonardo’s journey is bittersweet for me, I'm happy we're ending the story on a high note. Leonardo was famous for his mirror-writing, and there’s a symmetry to the entire series between the first episode and the final one that I think the maestro would have appreciated. I want to thank our dedicated fans around the world for viewing and engaging with such passion I want to thank Starz for joining me on this crazy romp. And I want to thank Tom Riley for turning in a consistently brilliant performance. It’s no small feat to portray a genius, but Tom did it with grace and humor. I hope everyone enjoys these final episodes as much as we enjoyed making them.”1 point
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I think a lot of shit bounces off of me because of the attitude, but I think it slowly piles up and starts to drag you down. I kinda like the attitude because it's kinda me, but kinda not, actually me, you know? My gf would be whining about whatever and I'll be like, 'It's not a big deal' cause it's not.. Idk. Limmi is right though (I guess, by proxy, I am too), it's a problem when you're dwelling on it for an unhealthy amount of time. If you feel that it's severe enough, find a therapist. Easier said than done. Some people get over different things easier than others. Also some people may have actual disorders (like OCD/depression/anxiety) and it's inherently incredibly difficult to get over any obstacle.1 point
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I'd say the first one is a normal jealous/envious reaction to something. I've had that happen to me relating a lot to things like school projects or people taking what I say and basically rewording it and putting it as their thought. It happens and I think it's an incredibly normal reaction to take. I feel both of them are completely normal actually.. I'd feel the same way (in fact that's kind of rude). How long do you sulk or feel the burns? How emotionally ruined do you feel when these things happen? What sort of mindset were you in before the events? I don't want to pick you apart Arian, but I'm curious. While not an actual disorder (do you mean obsessive compulsive?), I know what you mean. It's happened to me too often to count. A lot of medication now takes care of most of it but one thing that persists is when I lose something of my possession. If I lose something, like a game, or all my AA batteries or what have you, I literally freak the fuck out. It's not just "shit where is this thing? So frustrating"; it's cranked to 11 where I get really really fucking angry at myself until I cry and think how awful of a human being I am, and I think about it for days. It's pretty much the world ending. I used to be really bad with 'failure'. If I do one teeny thing wrong and someone points it out or I happen to find it out on my own. I really beat myself up about it to the point where it spirals out of control to suicidal thoughts and how awful of a human being I am. Or when all my friends/family or whatever, are doing stuff (work and other junk) and are legitimately unavailable, and I have nothing but myself to keep myself entertained or just left alone. I'd think about how no one likes me anymore, how I have no real friends and how awful of a human being I am (seeing a theme here). Or I questioned how valuable I am to people close to me, how valuable I am in relation with my environment, how worthy am I to live and continue to exist. As cool as I like to pretend to be and not give a fuck both online and irl, lots of stuff gets to me and that 'don't give a fuck' attitude is a big coping mechanism. Regardless, I obsessed with this thought a lot and it did me no good. Regardless of my experiences (I had a lot of problems, okay?), if you have thoughts of anger/sadness/nothing and they spiral out of control, I extremely recommend talking to a therapist/psychologist and they can diagnose you and recommend options to take to hopefully rid some of the unneeded stress you cause yourself, be it through more therapy, or prescription medication. After lots of therapy and different meds, we've found one that works for me and it drastically improved my life.1 point
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For me it's the nostalgia, It was one of my first anime that I knew was anime back when I was a kid. The manga is alot better anyways, Viz's translations are uncut and faithful as far as I know.1 point
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